Guardianship case highlights plight of elderly (CA)

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Last month Guadalupe Olvera, 93, rode in the Aptos Fourth of July parade. A survivor of the Battle of the Bulge, Olvera cruised through town in a vintage World War II jeep with his fellow VFW members. They waved at the families lining the streets, who saluted from the sidewalk and shouted, “Thank you for your service!”

It was a lovely day, but it’s been a long road for Olvera and his family to the Aptos parade. For most of the last three years Olvera and his daughter, Rebecca Schultz of Aptos, have been entangled in a messy and expensive guardianship dispute with his court-appointed guardian, Jared Shafer, a professional guardian and fiduciary who operates a business in Las Vegas.

Guardianship, also referred to as conservatorship, is a legal process where a judge appoints a third party individual to care for a “ward,” usually an elderly or disabled person. The guardian takes direct control over the ward’s life, both personally and financially. The guardian is often responsible for big decisions such as where the ward will live, who is allowed to visit with the ward and even whether to continue with life-support systems.

But the three-year dispute with Shafer wasn’t over the finer details of Olvera’s care. It was over who was entitled to serve as guardian of him and his nearly $1 million estate: Shafer or Schultz, Olvera’s only living child.

Schultz, an artist given to impassioned exclamation over injustices, sees more than a troublesome series of lawsuits for herself over the course of the ordeal. She sees at best a system weighted against families and at worst a conspiracy to steal from the elderly, sanctioned by Nevada courts and overlooked by the federal government.

She claims that Shafer has stolen outright from her father, saying that a year’s worth of Olvera’s carpenter pensions and social security payments are missing and have “never been accounted for.”

She says Shafer fabricated bills and withdrew excessive funds from Olvera’s Wells Fargo checking account, depleting it by almost $300,000 since November 2009.

“I went into this not knowing anything about guardianship. Not knowing anything about lawyers. I’m just an artist. I’m just a normal person. I didn’t know how bad Nevada was. I didn’t know how corrupt it was,” says Schultz.

Neither Shafer nor his attorneys would comment for this article.

Bait & Switch

In 2002, as Schultz tells it, her father and mother moved to Nevada, “lured by promotional videos sent by property developers” promising no state income taxes and ample senior citizen services. The couple moved to Nevada alone, leaving behind their only living daughter and their grandchild. Schultz says she discouraged them from leaving California, where they had lived for their entire adult lives, but kept in touch with them and visited their Nevada home.

In 2005 Olvera’s wife filed for guardianship over her husband’s person. (Court documents obtained by the Weekly state that Olvera has had mild dementia since 2004 but that he is able to communicate and express preferences.) When his wife died in November 2009, Olvera’s guardianship was freed up. Nevada law states that a guardian must live in the same state as the ward, so Schultz wasn’t immediately qualified. She called Family Court Commissioner Jon Norheim’s office for advice. According to Schultz, the woman who answered the phone told her she would need to have a temporary guardian put in place and gave her Shafer’s unlisted home telephone number.

When Schultz called Shafer, he told her she needed an attorney, too. Schultz says he set up an appointment for her with elder law attorney Elyse Tyrell for the next morning.

At the appointment with Tyrell the next day, Schultz says they agreed to put Shafer in place as a temporary guardian while Schultz worked out the details of moving her father to California so she could become his guardian and care for him there. Tyrell filed the guardianship orders immediately.

A few days later, Schultz and Shafer went to her father’s home together and stepped aside for a private conversation about Olvera’s guardianship.

According to Schultz, that day Shafer told her that he expected he would be able to transfer the guardianship of her father to Schultz within three to six months. She says he told her not to mention anything about guardianship to her father for fear that it might cause him anxiety, and limited how long her visits with her father could last.

These limitations seemed strange and frustrating to Schultz, who grew eager to bring her father back to California with her and leave the situation behind them.

When she returned to California in late November 2009, Schultz conducted an internet search of Shafer and found something unsettling: an ethics charge brought against him from the family of another ward, back in 2003. This seemed like a red flag to Schultz, who turned to her attorney, Tyrell, for assistance and says she got quite a surprise.

“She told me, ‘I don’t work for you, I work for Jared Shafer. You’re more than welcome to hire another attorney and petition the court for guardianship.’”

In November, Schultz had paid Tyrell a total of $3,700 for her legal services, outlined in a document signed by both women that states plainly, “This agreement is made on this 13th day of November, 2009, between Rebecca Schultz as guardian for Guadalupe Olvera and the law firm of Trent, Tyrell & Associates.”

On Feb. 9, 2010, however, Schultz received a letter from Tyrell that included a reimbursement check for the $3,700. The letter denied that Tyrell had ever been Schultz’s attorney: “During our meeting on November 13, 2009 and, during several telephone conversations subsequent thereto, I explained to you that I represent Jared E. Shafer as your father’s guardian and I do not represent you.”

Tyrell failed to respond to multiple phone messages left by the Weekly.

Caught in a perplexing situation by people she had believed to be working for her, Schultz hired other lawyers and went to the family court in Las Vegas in an attempt to remove Shafer as guardian and have herself and her husband appointed. Delays by the court and complaints by Shafer about Schultz’s character alleging that she was after her father’s money (“character assassination,” says Schultz) stalled the process.

Finally, in September 2010, Schultz defied the Nevada court and brought her father from Las Vegas to her home in Aptos, where he resides today. He spends most of his time in a nicely appointed room in Schultz’s house. Schultz and her husband Robert provide meals, laundry, help with bathing and transportation to doctor visits to her father. Olvera stated numerous times in a court report that his daughter and son-in-law treat him “like gold.” Schultz estimates they save him $7,300 a month—the figure Shafer’s care giving agency charged.

Schultz remembers the day in 2009 that she spoke with Shafer in her father’s home about the temporary guardianship. She says he assured her he didn’t like to hold onto cases like Olvera’s for more than three to six months and then added, “You know, I don’t even have to go to court. The judges give me what I want.”

Lite Court

Just two weeks before Schultz moved her father to California, Schultz and Olvera sat in a hearing before Clark County Nevada Family Court Commissioner Jon Norheim. Across from them sat Jared Shafer and Alan Freer, one of the several attorneys Shafer works with. Schultz and Olvera had two attorneys, Stephen Mayfield and Brian Boggess.

A video of the hearing viewed by the Weekly shows casual courtroom decorum by Norheim and Shafer and peculiar behavior by Norheim, who is supposed to be hearing both sides of the case.

Norheim perches at the judge’s bench, sipping out of a large soda and personally outlining the reasons the court is recommending Olvera stay in Las Vegas. Freer isn’t required to say anything until over halfway through the proceedings—Norheim rebuts the assertions of Schultz’s attorneys himself. All the while Shafer, wearing a T-shirt, reclines in his seat with his hands folded behind his head.

Olvera stands up, again wearing his WW2 uniform, and announces forcefully, “I’m going to California no matter what. I’m not going to live here. I don’t need that man; I don’t need Jared [Shafer]!”

“I’m not willing to make that jump today,” says Commissioner Norheim, with an apologetic smile. “You may have greater luck at a higher level than me.”

Norheim then cites a report conducted by a court social worker months before, which allegedly says Olvera didn’t want to move to California.

“There has been a determination that Mr. Shafer is doing a good job,” says Norheim. “The ward has continuously expressed that he doesn’t want to move to California, that he wants to be here with the friends in the facility that he’s in, because he developed bonds there…he likes the social environment there.”

That piece, though, is odd. Olvera didn’t live in a facility with a social environment. He lived at home, alone, with just a single caregiver from an organization called Keep You Company.

Schultz repeatedly refers to this experience as a “kangaroo court,” and says she wonders if Norheim even read the case documents.

Nationwide Problem

Adding insult to the injury, Schultz paid for her attorney fees with the help of a friend. Freer’s fees, however, were taken out of Olvera’s estate—but padded first, according to Schultz.

In fact, bank statements from Shafer’s guardianship, viewed by the Weekly, show several confounding billing discrepancies. There are duplicate billings of multiple invoices with the same invoice number. There are extraordinarily high charges, such as a total of $7,475 billed for emails sent over the period of just 19 days, all listed at exactly “6 minutes each.” One bill shows a bizarre charge for 1.666667 hours. After Olvera moved to California, Shafer continued to bill his estate for in-person visits with him, which would have been impossible.

Guardians are lawfully allowed to use the elderly ward’s estate money to fight in court to maintain the guardianship, often in cases against the ward’s children or other family members, resulting in a mind-bending Catch-22. People like Schultz wind up feeding the very system they’re fighting against.

Schultz’s accusations against Shafer may seem extreme and almost unbelievable, but she is far from the only one making these claims. Just typing the name Jared E. Shafer into Google’s search engine pulls up several pages of complaints against him on consumer report websites, making it impossible to unearth his professional web site through the heaps of corruption accusations. And this isn’t just a Las Vegas problem.

“This is happening on an ongoing basis all over the country. The states where old folks go to retire like Florida, Nevada, California are the worst,” affirms Elaine Renoire, Director of the National Association to Stop Guardian Abuse.

In a September 2010 report on the issue, the U.S. Government Accountability Office (GAO) “identified hundreds of allegations of physical abuse, neglect and financial exploitation by guardians in 45 states and the District of Columbia between 1990 and 2010.”

“In 20 selected closed cases,” the report reads, “GAO found that guardians stole or otherwise improperly obtained $5.4 million in assets from 158 incapacitated victims, many of whom were seniors. In some instances, guardians also physically neglected and abused their victims.”

Closer to home, the Mercury News recently conducted a six-month investigation into guardian and fiduciary abuse in Santa Clara County. Reporters found similar instances of lavish bills from guardians going unchallenged by the courts.

The Weekly spoke with Robert L. Morris, a partner in the Las Vegas law firm Grant, Morris and Dobbs specializing in estate, trust administration and guardianship. Morris is unaffiliated with Schultz’s case but says he has had clients with similar complaints against professional guardians and that Schultz’s situation doesn’t surprise him.

Morris says that, as a practice, he doesn’t refer clients to professional guardians like Shafer.

“You run into these issues of breach of fiduciary duty, mismanagement with any professional guardian who is out there for hire,” he says.

Further, Morris notes that Clark County courts are “very busy” and unlikely to catch fraudulent or exorbitant charges by professional guardians from their ward’s estates, even though it is technically the court’s job to approve or deny all billings related to guardianship.

“The court is going to approve those fees,” he says simply.

Renoire explains that most professional guardianship situations come about as the result of family disputes: “Sometimes family members get into a dispute about money or care issues and take the matter to court. They expect the judge to hear both sides and make a fair decision. On a growing level instead, the judge hears family disputes and brings in a third party as a guardian or conservator.”

Renoire encourages families, especially those with elderly parents, to turn to respected community members and counselors before taking their disputes to court in order to avoid a messy and expensive guardianship situation.

“Most people that need a guardian need one quickly, and they don’t have time to do research. They don’t know about guardianship until they’re stuck. It’s like stepping in quick sand.”

“The newest wave of victims are coming to shore: Baby Boomers,” she adds.

Victory Day

Once in Santa Cruz County, Schultz researched local fiduciaries and decided on William Chaddock, a Santa Cruz fiduciary with over 30 years of experience. On July 16, Santa Cruz family court judge Timothy Volkmann and The Grunsky Firm, representing Shafer locally, agreed to appoint Chaddock as guardian over Olvera’s estate and Schultz and her husband as guardian over her father’s person. Shafer’s guardianship will be terminated, as long as Shafer and the Nevada courts finalize the procedure.

Keith Dysart, Schultz’s local attorney, encouraged her to take the day off and celebrate—she had won. Schultz reports that she was in shock, and says she doesn’t feel out of the woods yet. She expects Shafer will drag out the transition, making it “difficult and expensive.”

Schultz, for her part, isn’t finished.

“We still are, for a long time, going to be dealing with making Shafer accountable. That’s going to be the issue now. I’m still going to keep at it with the feds and everything. It’s not over.”

“It has consumed my life because I’m a fighter,” she says. “He’s messed with the wrong family this time. I’m not going to let it go.”

Attribution:

Guardianship Case Highlights Plight of Elderly
WW2 veteran Guadalupe Olvera’s right to move in with his daughter in Aptos was disputed by Nevada authorities for three years
Georgia Perry
July 31, 2012
Santa Cruz Weekly
http://www.santacruz.com/news/2012/07/31/guardianship_case_highlights_plight_of_elderly

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  • R.S.

    It should be known that The Grunsky Firm (Grunsky, Ebey, Farrar & Howell , who is representing Jared E. Shafer in Santa Cruz County, ALSO represents my husband and I via our nonprofit resident member owned water company, Trout Gulch Mutual Water. The Grunsky Firm was hired by our TGW in 2007 and because my husband and I are 2 of the owners of TGW, that makes us also clients of The Grunsky Firm in Watsonville. My husband, Robert, is also on the board of directors of Trout Gulch Mutual Water. This issue was pointed out to the Grunsky Firm by one of our attorneys when Grunsky began representing Shafer again in our recent conservatorship filing in Santa Cruz County Superior Court. Despite Matt Aulenta and Tom Dwyer fully knowing that their firm represented Jared E. Shafer as well as my husband and I at the same time, they continued to act in a CLEAR and OBVIOUS CONFLICT OF INTEREST by continuing to represent Shafer.

    Needless to say, members of our TGW and the board of directors were NOT happy about this blatant and unethical behavior and will NO LONGER be using The Grunsky Firm—they have officially decided to NEVER hire The Grunsky Firm again. I hope Mr. Dwyer and Mr. Aulenta and their firm are happy to know now they have forever lost a client and that their reputation is now tarnished. It’s shocking that a local legal group, the Grunsky Firm, has demonstrated such wanton and reckless disregard for a veteran of WW2 by representing a fiduciary having such a soiled reputation as Jared E. Shafer.

    In addition, we were told by others in the legal community that Mr. Dwyer “pads his bills”, certainly an unethical behavior which Shafer certainly encourages, especially when Dwyer bills my father’s estate AGAIN. Perhaps the American Bar and the State Bar needs to hear about this firm’s tactics. Over a year ago when we first filed for a conservatorship, Tom Dwyer billed my father’s estate (through Shafer) $12,000 for not much of anything productive at all. And, later, after that $12,000 was taken from my father’s trust in Nevada, Shafer presented that bill AGAIN for the $12,000 to the Nevada court for payment.

    I hope people now realize that The Grunsky Firm in Watsonville willingly affiliates themselves with the most unsavory of clients and seem content to be accomplices in the exploitation of a 93 year old WW2 veteran of the Army and post war veteran of the Air Force.

    The Grunsky Firm also engaged in another scenario of conflict of interest. At our first CA hearing, Matt Aulenta attempted to have professional fiduciary, Sandra Hill, be conservator of my father’s estate. Sandy Hill is ALSO a client of The Grunsky Firm, as is Jared E. Shafer. It was ALREADY a conflict of interest for Grunsky to represent my husband and I via our water company while representing Mr. Shafer to oppose us and then they tried to set us up by putting Sandy Hill in place, who hires Tom Dwyer of Grunsky to represent herself on a regular basis. Grunsky works for Ms. Hill and Mr. Shafer and yet they want Sandy Hill to be conservator for my father’s estate? That would be a disaster. This indicates that Ms. Hill must be in the same category of fiduciaries as Mr. Shafer and this clearly exhibits the degree of unethical tactics The Grunsky Firm engages in. Then there was the issue of Grunsky attempting to discredit another local fiduciary because we rejected Sandy Hill. Dirty tactics, indeed. It’s sad that we have attorneys in Santa Cruz County like this firm that operate in the same ugly mode as Jared E. Shafer does in his filthy city of Las Vegas. It’s no wonder they were so willing to represent Mr. Shafer, especially with him promising them they’ll be well paid from my 93 yr. old father’s hard earned life savings—very convenient for Tom Dwyer with his reputation of padding bills. Immoral, all of them.

  • L.S.

    Great article but there is a lot missing, I’m sure, due to limited space. Victims have been threatened, victim’s attorneys have been threatened and victim’s friends have been threatened by associates of Shafer and sometimes directly by him. Anyone trying to help a ward and their family to fight Shafer, eventually gets scared away. Threats come in the way of phone calls or messengers in person saying things like, “If you don’t stop helping so and so, bad things might happen to you.”

    If the threats don’t work, bribes are offered by Jared Shafer and his associates. This works very well on a regular basis with the judges and the attorneys and others involved in this court system. Many victims lose their attorneys after they are either threatened or bribed to not work and protect the victims of Shafer.

    Jared Shafer also goes to great lengths to impose his lies about wards and their families. He uses his corrupt system in Las Vegas to help him. He gets the judge, Jon Norheim to make statements on videotaped hearings that are nowhere near the truth. He uses the Senior Citizens Law Project, comprised of Julie Arnold and Carol Kingman, to benefit him and the court system personally. The Clark County site states that this Senior Citizens Law Project “provides free legal counsel and assistance to Clark County residents age 60 and older”. What they actually do is harm seniors by doing things like “interviewing” wards in guardianship cases to see what the wards wants. But they do this with no one from the ward’s side to witness this interview. I’ve seen this time after time. Then they go back to court and report back to the judge the opposite of what the ward wanted. If the ward expressed that they wanted to be with their family, for instance, they tell the court the ward does not want to be with the family, and so on and so forth. I have seen this over and over and over and the shocked looks on the faces of the families and wards when these lies have sprung from the mouths of Arnold and Kingman.

    The Senior Citizens Law Project in Las Vegas, Ms. Arnold and Ms. Kingman, sit off to the side of the judge in court, cackling and smirking while telling lies to benefit the court system and specifically Jared Shafer. These two women have caused more damage to wards and their families than anyone can imagine. Local attorneys even refer to them as “the two witches”. They are supposed to assist in the protection of the ward’s rights, but they do the complete opposite. One observer during a hearing recently said they were sickening to watch, Julie Arnold in particular, throwing her head back with her mouth so wide opening while cackling the fillings in her teeth could be seen. Arnold and Kingman seem to think playing with the elderly and disabled is a very funny.

    At quick look at the web page for the Senior Citizens Law Project brings up a list of their services. That list clearly states they don’t handle guardianship cases. So, why then, are these two women allowed to interfere with guardianship cases and the lives of wards to damage them further under Shafer’s guardianships with their blatant and consistent lies? The answer is probably money. They may be willing participants in the cash exchange of bribes, there is no other explanation. Their web page says that they accept donations—interesting, especially since they are not a nonprofit. In Las Vegas donations usually go hand in hand with bribes and payoffs, everyone knows this.

    I am an investigator and former associate of an attorney in Las Vegas and I have witnessed it all. I have heard the threats and I have heard the bribes. I have heard and seen the families cry. I have seen Judge Norheim, Jared Shafer and his attorneys all laugh at these victims. Nearly every Wednesday this happens in family court. Every Wednesday is a big joke to Jared Shafer and his little circle of judges and attorneys. It is all horribly sad. My heart goes out to the victims of this bogus court system and I wonder how Shafer, Norheim, Kingman, Arnold and all those affiliated with this group sleep at night. I am grateful that the media is bringing all of this to the public’s attention so that hopefully some enforcement agency will make these people stop their criminal activities.

  • R.S.

    UPDATE REGARDING THE GRUNSKY FIRM IN WATSONVILLE, SANTA CRUZ PERSONAL INJURY LAWYERS, MONTEREY CALIFORNIA FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS: Tom Dwyer, Jared Shafer’s attorney, recently wasted our attorney’s time as well as delayed the filing of our conservator orders by insisting on changing terminology of the judge’s orders over a period of several days. Nothing but a waste of time and more efforts to bill my father for nonsense and unnecessary phone calls over one or two words that basically meant the same thing.

  • Charles Pascal

    Update Regarding Guardian Jared Shafer & the Marcy Dudeck Case:
    On August 21, 2012 Professional guardian Jared Shafer’s buffoonery surfaces again. A surprise package arrived at our door addressed to Heidi Pascal. The first thing, which stood out was the package contained no postage. It was left in front of our houseboat. We opened the package and learned it possessed the container to keep Heidi’s Mother’s ashes, which Heidi purchased from the Neptune society in 2007. We opened the container and found a picture of Lance Dudeck, Heidi’s brother, with his arms around his mom Marcy Dudeck. The picture was taken after Mrs. Dudeck was kidnapped against her will and taken to Nevada.

    The only person who could have possibly had possession of this container was guardian Jared Shafer. We found this to be quite humorous because Mr. Shafer in his total incompetence closed our case in 2011. Eight months later he finds the box containing the ashes. He sent Marcy’s ashes to Heidi 8 months ago, minus this box. We laughed at the contents because Mr. Shafer couldn’t even provide an accounting of how he managed our estate. The man must not be able to write because no return address was provided on the package. It takes some education to correctly write one’s return address. Now, after 8 months, he finds the container decides to deliver it, which should have held Marcy’s ashes originally. This is only another example of how important it is to attract a higher caliber of professionals to the profession of fiduciary or guardian. The regulations governing this industry are non-existent, which results in such bazaar behavior by the insane guardians who claim to be in charge of our seniors. Read more about guardian Jared Shafer and Marcy Dudeck’s case at: http://stopguardianabuse.org/marcydudeck.htm

  • Another Victim

    Jared E. Shafer’s accomplices in the continued exploitation and abuse of seniors and the disabled in Las Vegas, Nevada are: Judge Jon Norheim, Judge Charles Hoskin, Guardian Patience Bristol, Julie Arnold & Carol Kingman of the Senior Citizens Law Project, attorney Alan Freer, attorney Mark Hutchison, attorney Kim Boyer, attorney Dan Goodsell, Amy Viggiano Diettrick of unlicensed AVID Business Services, Shafer’s fellow defendants and CPAs in the Utah securities case Gammet & King, Nevada Attorney General Catherine Cortez Masto, Center for Guardianship Certification (CGC), CGC’s executive director Denise Calabrese, National Guardianship Association (NGA), Nevada Commission on Judicial Discipline, Eve S. Mills of Wells Fargo. This list is NOT complete, but these are some of the main players that protect Shafer or look the other way or leech money off the victims in legal fees, pretending to seek justice for the wards families but fail to tell victims that there is no justice in Nevada so it is all a waste of time, energy and money, except for the attorneys and Shafer, who laugh all the way to the bank with their fat checks paid by banks like Wells Fargo, who pretend to “protect” trusts. So these attorneys take your money or the ward’s money and fight a fruitless battle that only benefits the bank accounts of Jared E. Shafer, the attorneys and all the others who are part of this despicable legal system in Nevada. Please discourage anyone you know from moving to Nevada, especially if they are elderly. Once there with your life savings in Nevada, it will never leave the state and your children and relatives in other states will not be able to save you or your estate from plunder. Senator Harry Reid is at the top of all of this, a friend of Shafer’s and responsible for the “lawless” and “above the law” mentality of all these greedy and selfish individuals who have no empathy, sympathy or humane feelings for senior citizens or the disabled. May God have mercy on them should any of these soul-less people become disabled or too old to take care of themselves. The perfect punishment for all these individuals would be for them to have to be under the care of someone like Jared Shafer. We have to wonder if Shafer himself will need a guardian. More fitting would be for him to become a ward in a prison.

  • Friend

    Guardian Abuse By Private Fiduciary Jared Shafer- Update On Olvera Case:

    http://www.americanmafia.com/Inside_Vegas/2-25-13_Inside_Vegas.html

  • Friend of Family

    Update on Olvera Guardianship! Mr. Olvera may be the only one to ever have guardianship under Jared E. Shafer terminated without dying! See full update here:
    http://www.americanmafia.com/Inside_Vegas/5-20-13_Inside_Vegas.html

  • Eloise O

    We had a guardianship issue with my mother-in-law that these same players were involved with. As I read through this, the names all seem eerily too familiar from Judge Jon Norheim to Julie Arnold of the Senior Citizens Law Project. Bob Morris who was with the Jeff Burr Law Firm at the time, who was the firm my mother-in-law retained, was a nice guy but was helpless in protecting her, in this kangaroo court, or from one of her older sons who had been given Power of Attorney privileges and trustee status on the family estate and years later went rogue pillaging the family estate assets through self-dealing. Our family battle included not only the players Norheim, Arnold, but Schlectman, and Yamashita as well who all used no fact finding to find the truth in the matter, nor did they care, to honor what Mary’s ultimate wishes were–and in the end all contributed during the course of a year to giving Mary what was to be a death sentence, by labeling her incompetent even though her psychologist documented her otherwise. She is free of all the heart ache and turmoil, that the family court system and certain members of her own family inflicted, as she has since deceased. God rest her soul! All Mary wanted to do was to live out her golden years the way she chose and in our opinion certainly deserved that much.

    I give Ms. Schultz a kudos for removing Olavera from Nevada so that he could get treated fairly in a court system elsewhere and to make matters right. Knowing what we know now, we would have sent Mary back to Illinois to live out the remainder of her life, with her life long friend, Don, on his farm, and away from the State of Nevada and the Family Court system in Las Vegas.

    The one thing we learned in our dealings with Family Court is, just because you are right, and trying to do what is right by protecting your own mother, appearing in this kangaroo court, will not grant you a victory.